＂Tie Zi＂ is popular among young people. Netizen： It is more comfortable and relaxed than making friends.
"Go to work online at any time and lose contact immediately after work."
Do you think this is about bad karma migrant workers?
No, this is a portrayal of "taking a partner to work"!
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A new social relationship called "partner"
Is popular among contemporary young people.
"You can have no love, but you can’t have no partner!"
"Looking for a learning partner, you can learn the kind where the library is closed."
"Losing a partner is more sad than losing an object."
……
Some time ago
Related topic "Partner is a new social relationship"
Also boarded a hot search.
Arouse everyone’s attention
The so-called "partner"
It means because of a common interest
Or social relations formed by the combination of common needs.
Including but not limited to
Meal partner, travel partner
Coffee partner, sports partner
Chasing drama partners, etc.
The main theme is a kind of
Precise companionship in vertical segmentation field
Also known as the replacement of intimacy.
Netizens have left messages to reply.
Partner is the soul of life.
Although it has only recently become popular.
But the word "partner" has a long history.
Shanghai Dialect Dictionary published in 2007
It was mentioned.
The explanation is:
"People who play cards together are extended to partners."
Some surveys show that
More than half of the young people interviewed have "partners"
Most people choose to socialize together.
Advantage is to have the same purpose or demand.
Can help each other.
Do you have a partner?
Only unexpected
No, I can’t catch it
A rice partner who has the same taste and an average appetite, a tourist partner who has the same physical strength and works together to build a house, a poor partner who works together to help cut a knife, and a milk tea partner who has a second cup at half price … Everything can be built as long as they share the same interests.
On Tik Tok, the topic # Fantaizi # has been viewed more than 6 billion times. In the video comment area of some food bloggers, netizens will call it "Internet Fantaizi".
On apps such as Xiaohongshu, you can brush strange notes. Little Red Book blogger "Yangyangzi loves to fish" took a photo. She and her nap partner were covered with blankets and huddled on a mat about 1 meter in Zhang Kuan, sleeping soundly. "I don’t know if I came back from my nap. In short, I fell asleep smoothly today, and I didn’t feel like I had a headache before."
△ Little Red Book blogger "Yangyangzi loves fishing" and her nap partner, the picture is from Little Red Book.
Except for the nap partner.
There are also reading partners and dating partners.
Dazed partner
Even break up.
Just past the May Day holiday, there was a rush to find a tourist partner. Some young people living in popular cities posted on social platforms that they can provide charging services such as taking luggage, taking photos, and customizing travel routes. Most partners say that they are college students and have no money but plenty of time. In essence, there are similarities between tourist partners and tour guides, but the former has stronger social attributes. "It doesn’t matter whether you make money or not, it’s mainly to make friends."
Xin Li, a post-00 college student, went to Beijing for a few days from Wuhan some time ago. Before traveling, she screened on social platforms and found a companion who is also a female college student. "Recently, many college students will take a short trip on weekends. For this kind of trip with stronger play nature, finding a partner online can meet the demand most effectively. If you are lucky, you can get to know more friends you can chat with, take photos with each other, and save money! "
Young people often live in an atomized society, and it seems that they rarely establish other intimate relationships except their classmates and friends from elementary school and junior high school to university. The process of traveling with your partner can temporarily throw away your immediate troubles. In a strange place, getting along with strangers has nothing to do with utility, and social interaction naturally returns to the pure essence. The process of knowing a new soul from scratch is fresh and interesting. It is another life experience for two people or a group of people to exchange stories. Xin Li and her partner left a group photo in the Forbidden City, Peking University and Guobo. Although the journey of laughter and laughter was only a few days, the two people who were supposed to be parallel lines had an intersection and continued to keep in touch.
"This is my first time to find a travel partner. Although I feel that travel itself should be done by people who are close to each other, this kind of’ uncertainty’ similar to opening a blind box is also quite interesting and a new experience!" Xin Li said.
The end of the partner
Is it friendship?
Partner-based social interaction reflects a major feature of contemporary young people’s social interaction: they accompany each other without disturbing each other.
A friendship often requires a lot of time and energy, and the emotional cost is very high. Many people have no time to get to know a person carefully, and they are only casual acquaintances with people around them.
When dealing with partners, we don’t need to spend time and energy to maintain relationships like friends, and we don’t need to participate in each other’s lives completely and truly. With a strong sense of distance, light burden and shallow friendship, many people find it very easy to get along with their partners.
Some people have commented that the partner is a fast-food friendship in the Internet age, a fragmented friendship, and a substitute version of intimate relationship. This simple and convenient interpersonal relationship can not only meet the social needs, but also dilute the time and emotional costs, so it is more and more popular among young people.
△ Netizens are looking for partners online, and the picture comes from Xiaohongshu.
What is the end of the partner?
May escalate into friendship.
Or maybe …
Young people are also very cautious when looking for a partner. A tacit sense of boundary is one of the essential qualities. More importantly, partners pay attention to the degree of agreement between common interests and values, emphasizing "precise companionship" and "value sharing", so as to better explore and develop their hobbies.
As a result, the partners’ comprehensive personal introductions and precise words on social platforms are more and more like the online version of the blind date.
Open your mind-there are already young people who have found various ways to make a blind date! I have to say that this way of taking off the order is flexible and efficient. Eating comes first, it doesn’t matter whether you look at it or not. With this relaxed attitude, many people have gained love instead.
However, Dongdong reminds us to pay attention to safety first when looking for a travel partner! A well-coordinated partner can certainly make the journey no longer boring, but how can we avoid "stepping on thunder" and preventing being deceived?
First of all, security is the most important issue, and it is the first step to identify whether the people who publish information online are true and reliable. "For security reasons, I think people will find partners of the same sex. I will click on her social software to confirm whether it is a’ trumpet’ or disguised as a girl." "I carry anti-wolf supplies with me, and I will report my trip with my friends at any time. Security issues must not be lucky. " Although carefree travel is more relaxing, the safety considerations of traveling with strangers cannot be ignored.
Secondly, a clear demand is also the key to help you find a suitable partner successfully. For example, time, destination, itinerary, and the personality characteristics of the ideal partner, so that you can get twice the result with half the effort whether you publish your own posts or find others’ posts.
If you find a congenial tourist partner, go to see the mountains, rivers, lakes and seas, the afterglow of sunset, take photos together, visit shops and punch in food, maybe you can add some unknown beauty to this journey.
in life
Do you have your own partner?
What is your most important partner?
Come on @ your partner
Let’s talk together!
Source: Dongfang Net Comprehensive Tide News, Central Committee of the Communist Youth League, etc.
Original title: "Tie Zi" is popular among young people! Netizen: More comfortable and relaxed than making friends.
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